As you can see, I'm not the most dedicated blogger. It's not because I don't enjoy blogging. It's not necessarily that I don't have anything to blog. Nor is it because I haven't had time, as I believe we all have time to do want we really want to do - we just have to prioritize. So, I guess it can be said that blogging hasn't been a priority.
Since I haven't submitted an entry since January - jeesh! -I'm going to try to remember what has been happening since then.
In February, husband Jeff had major back surgery. He was hospitalized for two nights following a 4-5 hour operation. He was supposed to be off work for six weeks, but returned after a month. I blame his quick return to work on the Mars/Venus problem. The doctor/surgeon told him and me that he could return to work part-time or until he got tired after four weeks. I interpreted this to mean that after four weeks, he could go back to work for four hours a day. Jeff understood him to mean that he could work until he got tired. The problem being, I wasn't there to tell him he was tired. So - after major surgery, he was back to work full time in four weeks.
In March, Ramona and I traveled to Bowling Green to attend the Kentucky Association of Educational Office Professionals Conference. While there, Jeff called me from home to tell me he had sold our house. No - he didn't sell it out from under me. It had been on the market for many months, but we hadn't really been living like it was for sale. Now all at once we had to find a place to move in 30 days!
Last year Jeff and I purchased 3.8 acres with building a house in mind. So, when our house sold, Jeff was determined to build a house. My concerns included; where we would live while the house was built, who would build it, how much would it cost, etc. etc. etc. I'm a nester. I have to have a home. I was not looking forward to living out of a suitcase while a house was being built - especially a house that Jeff insisted on help building - especially since he had just had back surgery and most especially since I knew that Jeff isn't one for using the best sense where his limitations are concerned.
Jeff (tried) to relieve my worries by reminding me that one time his mom and dad had a house under roof and moved in to it within 30 days. He also promised that he would not take on any house building projects that would harm him. I countered these statements by telling him that I was not about to move in to anything he could build in 30 days and that historically he had never kept his promises about being careful. (Jeff's back was damaged because of his theory that if he could pick it up, it must not be too heavy).
While we continued having "discussions", I began to pack and pack and pack. Jeff was still recuperating, so he wasn't much help. I would pack before I left for school and come home to pack some more. We finally came to a compromise. We would purchase a condo and build a house in leisure. He was happy. I was happy.
I'm still not sure when Jeff had his revelation, but one day he told me that HE didn't think building a house would be a such a good idea, stating the following reasons; his back would never be in great shape, we didn't need another yard to take care of, there was plenty of room in the condo, and . . . yes . . . he admitted he probably wouldn't be able to use the best of sense when assisting the house building. DUH!!!!!!!!!!!
So, on April 12, we moved to our new home!
Next up, came our May events. Jeff's aunt passed away on May 6 and his brother lost his three year battle with lung cancer on May 8.
Presently we are still waiting the completion of our master suite. It's all done except for the vinyl flooring and plumbing fixtures. Our garage door opener still needs to be installed as well. When all this is done, our home will be PERFECT. We love it here. The floor plan is great - the living area is so light and airy. It is so cozy - just the right size for the two of us. In the evenings we sit on our deck overlooking the golf course, being happy that we don't have the maintenance of a house.
The most recent happening in our family is my mom's retirement. This came as a shock to me and one that I have very mixed emotions about. Mom loved her job. She loved the kids and the general happenings at school. I loved her being in the same building with me. Since her major heart attack and very, very close call, it was always so comforting for me to see her walk in the school office each morning. I always thought that it was her duties at school that kept her going. Now since she has retired, I pray that isn't true.
Well - that about sums it up. I'll try to be more dedicated to Outlooks in the future.